End of the road?
Posted by Matt Shurrie
Has it really been six months? Wow. It's hard to know where the time has gone.
Over the past six months not a day has passed when I haven't pinched myself -- almost stunned by the success of this fitness challenge. The truth is that it has been overwhelming.
But don't be fooled. I fully realize that this is not the end of the road.
The comments -- both positive and negative -- have been incredible. In fact, in some way it's all of your support and encouragement -- and criticism -- that has pushed me to keep on fighting. There's nothing like someone doubting you to make you push just a little bit harder. The same is most certainly true for those who offered up their own personal stories -- or just offered an encouraging word be it through a comment on this blog or an email. Thank you!
Now that this portion of my weight loss is complete, there are plenty of people I need to thank -- and I'd like to start right at the top.
First, and foremost, I want to thank personal trainer Marla Arndt of Frameworks Fitness. She'll never truly understand or appreciate how much her encouragement and pushing has meant to me. It's well documented by now the number of times that I've set out to lose weight -- only to come up well short of my final goal. And while it's true that I never actually reached my initial weight loss goal in this challenge, the success that I have been able to achieve is due to Arndt's ability to motivate. She's nothing short of a saint in the way that she dealt with my complaints -- and the battles that we engaged in over healthy food choices. I certainly wasn't always the model client. However, through it all there was Arndt -- my rock -- ensuring that I was being pushed (something that doesn't always happen when I'm working out on my own). Thank you, Marla ... for everything that you've given me over these past six months. You remain an inspiration to me and many others in Guelph and across Wellington County.
Second, I want to thank my family and friends for their ongoing support. In fact, it might be fair to suggest that many of the hits generated on this site since September have come from those of you closest to me. In particular I want to thank my parents, Jim and Cathy, who have become regular Internet users in part because of the Matt vs. Fat fitness challenge. My father hadn't ever really turned on a computer, let alone navigated the Internet, before this whole event started. I was soon alerted to his new skills when he would call and ask me about something he read on this blog. The same is true of my mother -- another Internet convert sparked by this blog. Their love and support throughout this crucial period of my life has been a true blessing. They're special people -- and I'm so happy to have them both in my life.
Third, I want to send out a special thank you to a few other special people in my life for their ongoing support with this project. My sister, Amanda, has been a real inspiration for many years. Somewhat of a yo-yo dieter herself, she took control of her weight years ago -- something that left me both impressed and stunned. And she hasn't looked back. Her courage and determination are just two of her qualities that I admire. As well, I'd also like to send out a personal thank you to my girlfriend, Gillian. I'm not sure I would have been able to achieve these results without her support over the past six months. At times when I was tempted by some bad food choices, she was there to steer me in the right direction -- even if I didn't want her to do so (OK, especially if I didn't want her to do so). Each day I feel grateful to have met her. Finally, I'd like to thank my aunt Barb for her continued support. She has been a regular reader of the Matt vs. Fat blog -- and a regular responder via email. On the anniversary of my grandmother's death, she wrote to tell me how proud my grandmother would have been of me for pursuing this goal. A note that left me pumped. Thanks for your support, Barb!
Fourth, I'd also like to thank other family and friends who have taken the time to follow me online, especially Craig, Wayne, Jennings and Rob. It's amazing to know there is such support out there.
Finally, none of this would have been possible without the support of Guelph Mercury managing editor Phil Andrews and city editor Brian Williams. Their encouragement from start to finish has been amazing. In fact, not even my layoff at the newspaper proved to be an obstacle to finish this fitness challenge -- something Andrews addressed almost immediately. I'd also like to extend special thanks to my former work colleagues, including Scott Tracey, Rob O'Flanagan, Charlotte Parkhill Prong, Thana Dharmarajah, Rob Massey, Greg Layson, Vik Kirsch, Bob Henry, Sally Sarachman, Kate Hopwood, Tanis Fowler, Brent Butcher, Greg Rothwell, Tony Saxon, Joanne Shuttleworth, Declan Kelly, Nicole O'Reilly, Roger Leblanc, Ryan Pfeiffer, Nick Iwanyshyn and Brad Needham. It seemed almost impossible for a day to go by without someone offering up a comment or even a healthy lifestyle tip. Near the end of this fitness challenge, I was often met with kind words about my progress -- something that never got old or felt bad. They'll never know how much our little chats meant to me.
So, what's next? That seems to be the big question facing me in the coming days, weeks and months. I wish I had a good, clear answer. Truth is I'm not sure at the moment (although I've got some ideas). It's the one question that Arndt keeps asking me -- almost daily. I have assured her that I have no plans to go back to the person I was before this project got started. One thing is certain -- I won't be flying to an aircraft carrier anytime soon to unveil a banner reading Mission Accomplished. The real challenge before me is how to keep going -- and reach even better weight loss goals (I still want to one day return to that 200-pound mark -- and I don't think it's out of the question).
At the end of April I will be leaving the Royal City -- my home for the last year and a half. Perhaps the move will do me some good and provide the right environment to regroup and continue to take stock of my life. At this point I feel like there's bound to be opportunities out there for me -- you just never know what kind of venue I'll reappear in next.
However, I've given plenty of thought to the idea of carrying on the Matt vs. Fat project -- and the feedback has been somewhat overwhelming (at least no one has objected to this point). In order to move the project forward -- and continue this discussion -- I have started an independent website called Matt vs. Fat. The new website can be found at the following link:
http://mattvsfat.blogspot.com/
At this point I would invite you to join me for an open discussion about health and fitness. I promise to try and keep you updated on my own progress -- and invite you to do the same.
A final thank you to everyone for visiting this blog over the past six months. It's been an incredible ride -- but one that certainly isn't over.
I'd sure love to hear from all of you directly. My personal email address is: mattshurrie@hotmail.com.
Take care ... and I look forward to seeing you on the other side!
Sincerely,
Matt Shurrie
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